Ugh - Finally a place to vent.

According to what I've been told all my life.

My thoughts and opinions are Lacking tact or taste; blunt or offensive 
Otherwise known as A BIT CRUDE

Heres my reply to that -

- Your just to gutless to say what everyone else is thinking. Simple. 

For example this morning i was browsing my facebook and I saw a post by a gentleman which asked "can i get everyone's personal opinion, am i a nice guy and am i good looking?".

Hunny for one, posting on facebook for some self gradification means you clearly don't think your a nice guy or good looking. You clearly lack self esteem issues but haven't done anything about them. No ones told you the truth about how you act either.
Further investigation of his facebook i saw that he's posted on a SHITLOAD of FHM/ZOO models pages with stupid stuff like "Hi so and so how are you? i think your extremely beautiful".
DO YOU THINK THEY GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU MATE.
Do you ACTUALLY think they are going to reply and be like "Hi sexy man, lets meet up for drinks and i might take you back to my apartment because you seem like a really attractive and nice guy".

This does not happen.

This is just the tip of the iceberg. He then had some sort of post saying "Why can't i meet beautiful woman in real life, just over the internet. Why don't i have confidence".
Because your a fucking creep. Thats why. Someone needs to inform you that your display pictures is that of a morbidly obese man who creeps on woman so that you can fill some weird fantasy.

Basically this is what you need to do -

If you fat and unhappy. Change it. I did. I lost 65kg's. Anyone who says they're happy being fat needs to be shot.

If your not thinking that the way you dress is latest trends or makes you look attractive. GOOGLE IT. Unhappiness can be changed to happiness if your willing to make the effort.

"I WANT HIM TO LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM"

BITCH, PLEASE.

Get over yourself and understand that you MAY have a wonderful personality but guy/girls also need physical attraction down long road that is a long term relationship. Understand that now. Please.

Don't get pregnant and gain 400kg's. Your man will not only become a porn addict but probably very depressed looking at those 300 rolls. Which in turn leads to wandering eyes. Which no girl deserves.

You should want to look after your well being. Not for anyone else. But for yourself :)

This is all A BIT CRUDE, SORRY. 


Final note. 


You may be reading this going "Wow that is harsh" but i guarantee you have had a conversation along the lines of this sometime in your life, and you would of said "I wish someone would of told that person".

I have been that unhappy, obese, depressed girl that wishes people would of said something to me about why i had become the way i was. I then changed myself into a wonderfully happy, fit non depressed girl with confidence. All because someone said i needed to change and this is how.

Lots of Love,

Simone xo